The concept of religion versus relationship with God is one that fundamentally changes how we approach our spiritual lives. In my latest podcast episode, I explore this crucial distinction that transforms not just our spiritual understanding but our entire approach to life and success.

Many religious systems operate on what can be called a “Be-Do-Have” model. This approach suggests that if we can be good people within our chosen religious framework (be it Christianity, Mormonism, Hinduism, or any other faith tradition), and if we do the required rituals, obligations, and good works prescribed by that religion, then we will have our ultimate reward—heaven, nirvana, godhood, or whatever the particular faith promises. This system places the emphasis on human effort, rule-following, and earned salvation. It’s a transactional approach to spirituality that keeps us constantly striving, often without assurance, wondering if we’ve done enough to merit our reward.

However, what Scripture reveals is quite different. When Jesus died on the cross, the Bible tells us that the temple curtain was torn from top to bottom. This symbolic act represented the removal of the barrier between humanity and God, giving us direct access to a personal relationship with our Creator—no intermediaries required. This relationship-based approach flips the religious model on its head. Instead of “Be-Do-Have,” the biblical model is “Have-Do-Be.” Because we already have Jesus in our hearts through faith, we naturally do good works that flow from that relationship, and as a result, we become the light of the world.

Understanding this distinction liberates us from the burden of religious obligations, rules, and regulations that can become oppressive. The relationship with God becomes primary, and our actions become a response to His love rather than a means to earn it. This is wonderfully illustrated by the gift analogy shared in the podcast. If someone gives you a valuable gift freely, you don’t then try to earn what you’ve already been given. Yet this is precisely what many do with salvation—trying to earn through good works what Jesus has already purchased with His blood.

The beauty of a relationship-based approach is that God guides us into discovering our unique purpose. Psalm 139 reminds us that God knit each of us in our mother’s womb with specific intentions and design. Through relationship with Him, we get to discover and fulfill that purpose. This doesn’t mean life becomes easy—in fact, following Jesus can often make life more challenging, as evidenced by martyrs throughout history. But it does bring joy, fulfillment, and meaning that religious observance alone cannot provide. The invitation remains open to everyone: move beyond religion to relationship. Simply ask God to reveal Himself, believe in Jesus, and receive the free gift of salvation that transforms everything. In this relationship, we find not just eternal security but also daily purpose, guidance, and the fulfillment we’ve been searching for all along.

Link to Episode 14: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2255768/episodes/17017245